Managers are the protective Parts. It is their job to take care of our everyday safety needs. A lot of people experience Managers as the voices they hear, and eventually, come to think of as themselves. Trauma victims typically come to rely on Managers to help them form their opinions and judgments, but at the [...]
Trauma victims tend to have two types of Parts – protective Parts and protected Parts. The protective Parts feel the need to protect the more vulnerable Parts, and the internal systems organize themselves in this way. In some people, the protective Parts dominate, while in others, the protected Parts do. Everyone is different, but it [...]
Since a child’s circumstances and experiences shape their physical and psychological development, researchers have spent decades looking into the role that our early years might play in the likelihood of developing addictions in later life. According to the sex addiction researcher, Patrick Carnes, Ph.D., an incredible 97% of people with sex addiction suffered emotional abuse [...]
When trauma is left unresolved, it is very easy for the Parts to take over. When they do, they can cause all kinds of issues for trauma victims. In fact, sometimes Parts can take over to the point where they begin to inherently change the life of a person altogether. Trauma Symptoms Vs. Beliefs In [...]
Many trauma therapists do not know how to lead their clients into the basic understanding of who “I” is. “I” is subjective, and it could mean: The part of the person that gets angered easily. The part of the person who often succumbs to fear. The part of the person that feels ashamed at times. [...]
Most trauma victims spend their lives trying to run away from their Parts instead of getting to know them, learn about them, and sympathize with them. But all that running away does is make matters worse, and the individual never gets to experience any true healing. It may feel like the prospect of getting to [...]
Every single person on this planet has a Self, and they also have Parts. The issue with trauma victims is that their Parts have – for lack of a better term – taken them hostage. This is done in self-preservation, but it is not something that cannot be overcome by learning how to listen and [...]
Humans are remarkable creatures, and we all have basic survival demands that change as we move from infancy into childhood and then into adolescence and finally, into adulthood. When our natural defenses fail us, our brains and bodies are programmed to “play dead.” They may shut down, and when they do, we may go unconscious [...]
Most therapists have been taught that processing trauma is the goal of trauma therapy. That means that they feel the need to access the traumatic memories their clients have with the goal of working through them. But placing too much emphasis on the events that occurred which caused the traumatic memories is not helpful at [...]
In the past, any mention of other “personalities” or Parts immediately led to a diagnosis of dissociative identity disorder (formerly called multi-personality disorder). But with continued research, it has been found that those Parts or personalities are actually quite vital. They are also present in every single person. Every human being has their own inner [...]