The Stages of Sex Addiction

Sex addiction occurs when a person has persistent and escalating thoughts about sexual activities. This causes them to become obsessed and preoccupied with sex, to the point where it has a negative impact on their life. As with any addition, someone fighting sex addiction will struggle to control their feelings and actions. Eventually, the pursuit of [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:50-05:00May 13th, 2021|Addiction|

How Long Does it Take to Recover from Sex Addiction

When recovering from sex addiction, it’s important to remember that you’re trying to overcome habitual behaviours you adopted in order to help you cope with life. Unfortunately, this means that a full recovery will take time. Recovery from sex addiction - how long does it take? Many experts say that sex addiction recovery can take anything [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00May 11th, 2021|Addiction|

Mind Multiplicity Vs. Dissociative Identity Disorder

Sometimes when people experience what feels like different personalities within themselves, they get scared. They immediately assume that they must be suffering from multiple personality disorder, or as it is referred to today, dissociative identity disorder. The fact is that this type of internal multiplicity is actually quite normal, and it is something that everyone [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00May 5th, 2021|Trauma|

Polarization of the Parts After Trauma

The human mind is made up of a system of Parts, and when there are differences between the parts, the situation can often escalate into polarization. This is a concept that most people can easily understand because we have all found ourselves in it at one time or another. In the book, Introduction to the [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00May 5th, 2021|Trauma|

Coping Mechanisms Against Substance Use During COVID-19

It has been just over a year since the coronavirus outbreak and for many parts of the world, life is still a long way from returning to ‘normal.’ With lockdowns, ongoing restrictions and uncertainty about the future, COVID-19 has naturally caused a great deal of stress and anxiety for everyone. It has taken such a [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00April 12th, 2021|Addiction|

The Transition from Trauma Memory to Trauma Logic

Today, we know so much more about trauma therapy and the proper way to provide it than we ever have before. For instance, it was once assumed that trauma victims would have the words they needed to explain the traumatic event they endured. They simply lacked the chance to express them. But research shown us [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00April 6th, 2021|Trauma|

Partners of Those Struggling With Sex Addiction

Sexual addiction doesn’t just affect the person suffering from the condition. It also has a significant impact on their partner, friends and family. Partners, in particular, are especially likely to suffer the consequences of sexual addiction. They can, in fact, be so profound that they too seek professional counselling to aid them with the healing [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00March 29th, 2021|Addiction|

Cheater or Sex Addict? What is the difference?

If someone is habitually unfaithful to their partner, they or the people around them may question if they’re suffering from sex addiction. In some cases, people who have cheated have even used this condition as an excuse for their behaviour - even if they don’t actually have an addiction. If a person is keeping important sexual [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00March 16th, 2021|Addiction|

Part One: The Purpose of the Parts in the Healing of Trauma

Unfortunately, we as human beings have been taught to believe that our minds are unitary. Our culture has led us to believe that any derivation from a solitary mind is called mental illness. It is quite possible that a lot of people have been wrongly diagnosed with multiple personality disorder (also called dissociative identity disorder). [...]

By |2021-12-15T03:32:51-05:00March 2nd, 2021|Trauma|